Monday, November 4, 2024

Tuesday, November 5, 2024, WI, MN

 I headed over to Pat’s house for coffee Saturday morning and shortly after we got there, Tracey’s son Rhys showed up.  I haven’t seen him for about four years and it was nice to chat again.  They worked on cleaning out tubs of stuff in the basement and Pat, Joey, and I headed to Tom and Karen’s house in Monona.  They were happy to meet Joey and he brought some cheer into their home, as they lost their 14 year old Airedale Tilly just a couple of months ago. We had a really nice visit, it was great to see them again.  Pat dropped me off at Dawn’s and I helped her take down the screens on her porch and we also took all of the cushions off the porch furniture, stacked them up so she could cover them up for the winter.  We also cleaned up some brush from the gardens and hauled it to the city’s compost collection site.

I went back to Pat’s house and we had leftover chili for dinner. Jonnie called later in the afternoon and let me know that my cousin, Jim Ganshert passed away Friday night. He had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer just a week earlier, but he died of a heart attack.  Most in the family agree that is probably a good thing, as both his Dad and his brother Larry died for the same type of cancer. Jim was 64 years old.

Yesterday, Pat, Tracey, and I had our pre-Thanksgiving dinner because we don’t get to have holidays together.  Dinner was yummy and it was fun to put it all together, hang out and cook.



Dawn and I walked to the Kozy Nuk on Monday morning to have breakfast with Mary (Jim’s sister) and Jonnie, they were both sitting in an empty parking lot because the restaurant was closed, so we moved to the Coffee Cup.   We had a tasty breakfast, and then Erin joined us and we stayed there and chatted for a while.



I had just got to the car when my phone rang and it was Karen to see if I could meet them for lunch at Waypoint at 1:00. I took Joey for a short walk and then headed to Monona. We shared lots of laughs and memories and had a really nice visit and lunch - I was a cheap date and just had a taste of the items they ordered.

Joey and I walked over to Pat and Tracey’s and just hung out for a couple of hours, then said our goodbyes and headed back to Dawn’s.   She and I watched the movie, “Love Again” and then talked about our experiences with grief when we lost our husbands. 

I left Stoughton at 8:45 and had a long and drizzly drive back home. Shortly after crossing into MN, the tire fault light came on my dash. I pulled over but didn’t see any issues, so drove on to Winona to a tire shop and had them check. No issues found, the guy said it could be the battery that controls the alarm. I need to get it into Costco for a rotation next week and will have it checked. 

It feels great to be home!